Why You Should Get Your Magnatism Vibe Rocking

This is a “people world” we live in.  It’s just the way it is.  If you don’t like people very much, then it will effect your success, happiness, luck, growth, joy, abundance and your entire life.  In this world, people matter and we are all so closely connected it’s insane.  Therefore, from a business standpoint, “people” critically matter.

The other day, I thought to myself that I need to turn-up-the-volume on my own way of interacting with other people.  I need to approach them with more love, gratitude, generosity, warmth, giving, PATIENCE, and non-judgement.  I need to do this because if I don’t focus on this or concentrate on changing this within me, then I become a little bitter towards people over time.

Think about it, we have customers and those customers can kick our asses if we look at it from the wrong angle.  I mean, in this business I have students and I try hard to help them earn money online, but over time, if I let it, many of those students start upsetting me by complaining or not doing what they should be doing.

Over time, I start getting jaded and bitter.  Then there’s affiliate and JV partners, colleagues and friends in the marketplace… and COMPETITORS TOO!  If you let it, they can kick your ass too… with criticism, rejection, attitudes, egos, demands, lack of integrity, communication, etc.

But then, I take a quick glance in the mirror and I’m like, well, I’m not perfect either!  Maybe I was a little too rough on so-and-so.  How you do anything is how you do everything right?  So, every once in a while, I have to stop my attitude and pivot, turn and change it on the spot to one of more gratitude, giving, non-judgement, patience and even love towards others (ALL OTHERS including the lady who served us dinner last night at Roccos here in Lakeway, TX).

Well, a day or so ago, I changed (AGAIN) my attitude to one of non-judgement, giving and love… and it’s made a profound difference already.  I went for a 3 mile jog yesterday (I mean walk) and I saw this guy walking with a huge dog.  Normally, I’d sprint right past him (walk…) and just toss him a hello or a nod.  Instead, I said, “beautiful dog you have there!”

What a huge difference.  You might not be able to see it, but look deeper.  He said, “thanks, he’s a handful but we love him”.  I stopped to show the dog proper respect and love by petting him and saying “what’s your name?”  The man was GLOWING!  So was the dog.

So was I and so would anyone who would have witnessed the “friendly” encounter.

Want to turn up the volume on your own magnetism?  Then, focus on giving… focus on generosity… focus on loving all people and on non-judgement. Start focusing on your own circumstances and be fine with them.  You don’t have to be complacent with where you are, but you can be grateful.

Start giving.  You can give a compliment… a smile… a silent prayer… advise… help… hugs… laughter… assistance… etc etc

Then, people will more gravitate to you.  Go give 3-5 compliments to people on Facebook or via email right now!  Give!  You think that dog likes me more now?  What about the dog owner?  Heck, the next day his wife waved at me and said hello!  I bet he told his wife about the nice guy who said “beautiful dog” that runs in the neighborhood everyday (well, walks…)

Eric Louviere

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13 Comments to “ Why You Should Get Your Magnatism Vibe Rocking”

  1. Dennis Becker says :

    Great reminder, Eric, thank you so much. You and your attitude rock!

  2. Samer Bechara says :

    Eric,

    Excellent article! I have been noticing for the last few weeks that the more I give, the more I get in return. It’s not just about the money, I feel more alive and fulfilled when I’m reaching out.

    I strongly believe that one should not have money if it does not help him become a better person. In fact, they would be better if they stayed poor. Your article said that better than I could have expressed it myself!

    1. Eric Louviere says :

      Hey Samer!

      YES, yes! I agree. I think to get more, we’ve got to give more and when we give goodwill, gratitude, non-judgement, LOVE to others, we are then more connected and we grow ourselves!

      Then, the more we become the more we get. As Jim Rohn Says, “If You want more, become more!” He’s right.

      If I’m bitter towards people, then people will be bitter towards ME!

      NOW, you tell me how one can be successful if his/her partners, colleagues, friends, customers, the market, strangers, suppliers/vendors, affiliates, peers, family, etc are BITTER towards him/her?? It will be quite difficult and that will only cause more bitterness, burn out, being jaded, etc.

      I remember years ago, I started working with Mike Filsaime. He was (is) one of the most giving people in this business I’ve ever met. He helped me more than I can express. He gave to others too. Yes, he’s an aggressive marketer as he should be, but boy can he give! I bet that had something to do with his rapid rise to the top! He’s human like the rest of us, but I witnessed his graciousness with people first hand.

      Now that counts as a complement from me! hehe

      ~Eric

      1. lucas says :

        The attitude of gratitude 🙂

        There is something very powerful about being in the field of courageousness, gratitude and a full acceptance of what is. It feels different. Gives you energy and no motivation then is necessary. The action comes from within. Flawlessly. Effortlessly. And there are no roadblocks. You don’t see them. Because they were never there at the first place. At that point you’re truly fearless and the world becomes the playground of your creation.

        Thanks Eric 🙂

      2. Eric Rosen says :

        I just wrote my post before I read this post.. wow, awesome bro!

        1. Eric Rosen says :

          Can’t wait for the Best Damn Mastermind! Let’s do it!

  3. Eric Louviere says :

    Thanks Dennis, that counts as one compliment for you… now 2 more to go! lolololol… 🙂 🙂

  4. Mike Trotter says :

    Eric,

    You are so right! It is very easy to become a bit bitter and jaded towards people, but you would be amazed how it is just as easy to become positive, complimentary and giving towards others.

    It is not the people that annoy us as much as it is the way we react to them. React in a positive way and you will get positive results. You reap what you sow.

  5. Marian says :

    Really inspiring and true article Eric! Thanks a lot.

  6. Theo says :

    Great article Eric! What was the dogs name? 🙂

  7. T L says :

    Thank-you Eric. A timely reminder. Not just an attitude of gratitude, but a little effort to interact positively with folks online if that is where you are.

  8. Brian GomeZ says :

    Great post man. Love the positivity you preach. Hard to do sometimes but always worth it!

  9. Eric Rosen says :

    E,

    Awesome as always my man.. I believe what we sow, we reap 100 x more.. However, that’s not the reason why I give and give…it’s proven over and over, the harder we work on ourselves every day, the better we can become in every area of our lives which include giving, providing more value in our businesses, and have all the success we deserve in life.

    The key is ‘every day’… it’s the little, insignificant things that we think don’t matter, but a kind word, appreciation, acknowledgement is everything for someone else and is everything for us too!